How are normal teenage girls like myself supposed to compete with girls like Megan Fox?
I am 16, and believe it or not, Megan Fox is talked about at my high school frequently, by all the guys.
They say she is "the hottest thing alive"
"drop dead gorgeous"
"amazingly hot"
and all the gross sexual stuff.
What the heck
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Im not as pretty as her, and neither are a lot of the other girls at school.
Im sure it makes a lot of us feel like crap or that we're not pretty enough for the guys.
What are we supposed to do?
God bless[=
Lara M:
You're supposed to grow up and get over it.
I'm sure you and your friends talk about some hot celebrity. Robert Pattinson is big nowadays, right? And that High School Musical kid?
Bottom line: You're not expected to compete with them. It's a fantasy. Get over it.
josh g:
Simply you cant LOL shes just to damn fine to compete with sooo your screwed :P
jared:
because theres only one megen fox
LG:
Work with what yah got
Manlenium:
but yet none have met her...
Confidential:
Well I'm sure they don't look like *insert hot male celebrity here* either, so don't worry about it.
pickedon:
easily: you are attainable.
Dj Conquest:
whoever said it was a competition?
Lost'N'Found:
your not supposed to compete. end of.
you are you and megan fox is megan fox.
the boys in your school are immature, give them time to grow and realise that girls like megan fox are a dime a dozen but smart girls like you (i bet you are) are a rare jewel.
George:
shes not hot at all youre probably hotter
Anthony:
Just be yourself. Ignore the idiots who worship her. She doesn't have a very good personality anyway.
...Personally I think she's kind of ugly.
just another guy...:
jessica alba is hotter, imo...
Ta-Zu (&Miku):
Any guy who won't date a girl because she doesn't look like Megan Fox is going to be living in their basement jackin off to her images.
Please remember this and move on.
Wes:
im 16 and i think she is only decent looking
Cory:
i say i kow hotter girls than her the guys at your school just want to be popular by dating her
Rawr!leo:
ur not competing with her! theyre all lil bois! and no one can get her
HappyMe:
LOL I think it's just because Transformers was so popular and yeah she is kinda hot but I don't think they should obsess about her sooooo much. It happens at my school too and probably at a lot of other schools. There's actually nothing to worry about. LOL and you can't really do anything. It's sort of like a celeb crush. Like girls have celeb crushes on really hot celeb guys!
chuck:
yeah, like girls NEVER talk about how hot guys are. all dudes hear from girls is that gay vampire from Twilight, or the jonas bros, or whatever trendy buIlshit girls are into nowadays.
guys arent the only guilty ones here.
ps- megan fox is legit hot.
Will:
You compete by the fact that there is only one Megan fox and only one person can have her X] besides, if they're worth it, they'll like you for you.
And I don't like Megan Fox's face tbh O_O
And I don't get how sexual stuff is gross, it's Human nature.
Ken:
Since Megan is not available and you are I imagine they will go for you. Youre kidding right?
Kayley:
Just remember that it's your personality that mainly gets you somewhere with guys. Upon first glance a lot of guys judge by what they see, but I don't think many guys want a relationship with a hot girl that is insanely dull with no personality. Not saying Megan Fox doesn't have that, i'm just saying in general. Plus she's a celebrity, most guys are like this. I know guys who have girlfriends who say stuff like that still, but they love their girlfriend because of their personality. So try not to worry so much. =]
phoebe9871:
AMEN!!!
i hate when guys do that but u know what she has a whole team of poeple to make her look beautiful and u know what we can just wake up and be beautiful! plus its not like any of those guys at ur school have a chance with her so dont worry theyll see the beauty right in front of them sooner or later!
AshleyAnn:
i dont care my boyfriends think she is hot but he knows he will never never be with her haha so he has to deal with me i know i dont look that pretty but he says that i am pretty and hot.. but ya she is a famous girl they cant get with you sound pretty young so they will get over it
sara:
why not ask those guys if they have ever heard of an "air brush"
you're not suppose to compete with those girls/women and if you even try you will always feel inferior.
look at it this way, next time some ok guy talks about being with her or any famous gorgeous actress, as them "what the devil would she want with you" they never put the shoe on the other foot.
DOLLFACEx:
i don't think men actually relise that the pictures they see of women in magazines are actually airbrushed to perfection, this gives women like us a false sense of security, and we do mad at trying to be perfect. But just remember everyone is beautiful!
Britnie:
don't sweat it honey. When you get older you will realize that there are men out there who do not think Megan Fox is hott but you are. Don't compare yourself to airbrushed pictures and tabloid divas, you are a real person and you can't just be slung into some group of so-called hotties because you are one of a kind. So LOve yourself. Good luck sweetie.
Anna:
Guys well be guys.they talk about girls like her because they know they well never be with one like that(keep dreaming boys!)
But girls like your self should be proud of who you are and dont mind them,because everyone is beautiful.and some guys just dont say if they think some random girl is cute at school.
:]<3:
I'm a girl but I don't understand what guys see in Megan Fox... I'm straight, but, still... I think she's pretty damn ugly.
Just keep in mind that celebrities have their own personal chefs, to cook them the healthiest meals and their own personal trainers, to get them into shape.
Normal people don't.
Guys have this vision of the "perfect girl" when they're teenagers that includes merely physical things. When they age, they realized that this perfection they see in retouched pictures is not real. And until they realize that, no girl will be good enough.
... so don't waste your time with those douches and find a guy that loves you for you :) Never settle for less, love.
ManinMyPocket.com:
Don't mix fantasy with reality. These boys see someone attractive but also publicized. She gets a lot of press so everyone hears about her all the time. It's ok for having someone to admire, find attractive. You don't have to compete with her. The only person you should be caring for is the one who thinks you're the one who's the most beautiful person alive. The one who gives you that attention, and doesn't compared you to Megan Fox. There are many ways to make yourself an attractive person in a man's eyes. If you want to know....
maninmypocket.com
jenius:
You shouldn't compare yourself to girls like that. Everyone makes way too big of a deal over the so called "perfect" woman. Actresses,super models a lot of them would look like crap without all that make up and their looks don't compare with a great personality. Forget about them and make the most of what you've got.
judy:
Some girls do the same thing.
Ex. MS. CULLEN, I <3 TAYLOR LAUTNER, ZAC EFRON IS A HOTTIE WITH A BODDDDY...
how do you think they feel?
Either boy or girl gabbing on about celebritys... I just say shut the f*ck up.
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not an ordinary girl ♥:
honey don't worry about it!
guys at my school talk about megan fox all the effing time! i learned that you can't live up to anyone else's standard and just be yourself. looks aren't everything. if you have a great personality i bet a great guy will come into your life. right now, at this age guys are still pretty immature and yes they will talk about sexual stuff. but eventually they will learn that appearance isn't everything. hope i helped! (:
Chloe:
Be confident in yourself, and don't compare yourself to girls like Megan. There are always going to be people smarter than you and better looking than you. On the other hand, there will always be people who are not as smart as you and who are less attractive than you. That's life. So, please trust me. Comparing yourself to others will always make you feel bad about yourself, and feeling insecure all the time is no way to live your life.
chicK .:
the guys at your school are just talking about her looks .
they don't know anything about her personality.
they arent being realistic, they will NEVERRR date or even probably meet megan fox.
don't feel put out because of some airbrushed barbie!
i wonder what they'd think of her if she took off all her makeup . :)
YOU however , are a more realistic expectation to look for in a girl . :)
they'll get over it . dont try and change yourself .
x
missroar:
Truth be told she is gorgeous but do you know she has also had plastic surgery. Boys will be boys and that's excately what they are....boys! as you get older you and them will realize that women and menlike her aren't attainable! you'll find that a meaninful relationship isn't based on looks and that if you go searching for a partner with too high of standards you'll end up unhappy! everyone is beautiful in their own unique way and so are you!
Ziggybaby:
You are beautiful. Don't let the movie industry try to convince you otherwise. Millions of dollars are spent making movie stars look the way they do and whenever you see them in magazines the pictures are often airbrushed to remove any "flaws." You are a real person, you have talents and quirks and beautiful features that are unique to you. The boys at school say the things they do for a lot of reasons; their friends are saying it, they want to seem "manly," etc. But I bet you there's a bunch who really have a crush on you.
juicyher:
There is nothing for you to do. Megan Fox is a fantasy girl to these guys, you are the real deal. The guys are going to appreciate you for that, not because you try to live up to some unrealistic media image. Just be yourselves and know that the guys will find you beautiful in your own way.
kk-mayo:
just keep confidence and don't let it get to u. know that u r just as beatiful and that one day u will find ur prince charming :)
Honey:
this makes you feel jealous and helpless?
I'm 15 and it actually humors me when the boys talk like that about megan fox.
as if a single one has a chance, and they KNOW it.
she's attractive but SO overatted, jheeez, when she was first introduced in this sitcom 'hope and faith' me and my mum commented on how awful and actress she was (she's WAY better now, given.)
anyway, nobody was gauping over her then were they?
noone really knew her name despite having watched her.
it's how the media feeds it to those pathetic boys lol
if she went to your school they would think she was hot and pretty but she wouldnt stand out, theres no airbrushing and makeup artists and taylors and personal gym trainers at your school are there?
she's an attractive girl made into the sexiest thing alive because the media made it that way!
she's a lovely girl i'm sure and yeah she's attractive but take away her fame and she's another girl walking your corridors, lets face it :)
jamesbond_007418:
Geez, Megan Fox is 22 yrs old and no 16 yr old boy is gonna know how to handle an older chick like that. Its just GUY TALK. Let it go
2nd: Hayden Panetierre is hotter, and make up does a lot for a girl. Without it, Megan prob looks as normal, rather than gorgeous, as any other 22 yr old hottie.
3rd: Don't compare yourself to her. It's like guys trying to compare themselves to Robert Pattinson (Twilight Vamp who all the chicks melt for).
You're not 22, and guys and girls that hook up with each other solely based on looks are never truly happy. Seriously, I'm 21, played that game and it gets boring after a while.
Finding someone who you think is hot because of who they are is a shit load more fulfilling. Sounds lame, but it's true.
GreenEyedGirl:
Well it's not like any of them are ever gonna go out with her so you shouldn't fell too threatened by her. And don't forget all the guys hear the girls talking about Edward from twilight and how he supposedly looks like a Greek goddess and he's perfect in every way. How are the guys supposed to compete with THAT?
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Misael V:
u cant lol
